20 days FB free made me realize and learn so much

As I sit and reflect on what the Lord has taught me on this Facebook free journey. I know that it is not only FB that is a distraction from the more important things but electronics period. I was still not doing the other things I should have been doing but rather playing on the iPad, my phone etc. We lived without these things before. I think I can do it again.
I am having a hard time coming to terms with the fact these things are in our lives and people forget to live real life. I am really trying to make some changes in my home to better our lives without these distracts.
I am not saying these things are bad but a major distraction. Yes it is convenient to text a friend about something or send a FB message. It's also nice to hear that friends voice and be heard also. I am still enjoying these electronic devices just with a little more FaceTime and a little less screen time.
The Lord and taught me to love as he has loved us. He has showes me what is important in my life. He has changed me and transformed me. I am growing closer to my best friend Jesus Christ. Forever I well be his child.
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how far are we suppose to go for friends

It has been 16 days since I have seen a Facebook status. My children are still asking for me to post that to fb. I am hoping after time they well not ask any more. They are like me and want to share what they do at home with friends and family.
Since signing off I have realized who I would stay connected with. Only those people I call, text and email. I like staying connected so this has been hard.
Some circumstances came up this weekend that has me thinking how far are you suppose to go for friends? How much am I to put my neck out there. Jesus died for us. What I am feeling is I am suppose to die for my friends. Even if they choice not to love or respect me. With this situation I am feeling what Jesus felt. I am that type of person to put my life on hold for friends. I will continue to be that person. It is who I am and I will always be. I know others will not understand why I do this. As a christian I have that responsibility to show the world Jesus. A simple smile to dieing for someone is who Jesus is through me. How far well you go? John 15:13

Facebook free day 5

When I began this journey I didn't think it would be so tempting to check up on what people are doing in there lives. I really want to see how that Birthday party went, if that pregnant momma had that baby, how the sick are feeling, how the weekend trip went, or how the weather affected someones weekend plans. I really want to see what my far away friends and family are doing by what they posted on Facebook. Why is this the only way to communicate? I feel kind of depressed to not have this as an option to see how people are doing. It is disheartening how often people will or will not contact you. Everyone has become FB addicts. Sending invites, little messages and words of encouragement over a FB post. If you receive a text, email, a phone call (by the way I am not a phone talker) or even a real letter in the mail from me. It is my way of reaching out and communicating the old fashion way because you and I need social interaction the old fashion way. Going to resist the urge to reactive my Facebook account. Doing my own social experiment. Day 5.

-Blessing to All

Weekend retreat

Jeremy and I had a wonderful time on our weekend away. Lots of time to relax and be together. We had been to other marriage retreats but this one was by far the better of the two we have attended. It was real. It was not about fixing the other person or the problems it was knowing who you are and knowing who the other person is.  Then excepting them for who they are. It was presented in a entertaining way but with serious information. Everyone should check out The Flag Page. It was very informative, self affirming and positive. I had a very nice time and we reconnected, reenergized and socialized with other couples. I would recommend to anyone that has a chance to attend a marriage retreat to take that chance. It has been a really great experience. If you want to know who I am you well have to take the flag page test for yourself and when can compare. It is worth the $15 to take the test.

First Day Facebook Free

The first day of my Facebook cleanse. Feels good but really wired to not get on and see what others have posted. My mom asked if I wanted her to call everyday. I said sure but she really wouldn't. Text and email work the same way just a little more personal. I am thinking of going screen free as well. The screens in our home have become such a distraction from interacting with each other and doing things together that it is time for a change. I am loving this new attitude I am having to changing things for the better in my home. I am letting even my family see I can change and that it is good.
With all this free time I see some book reading, game playing, coloring, sewing, walks, runs and lots more get togethers with friends. I am ready to face this challenge. Feeling good about this decision.

Love Amanda